In Sophocle’s Antigone, King Creon of Thebes orders that no-one bury the body of Polynices, a traitor to the state who died in battle. Antigone’s refusal to accept Creon’s laws set a series of events into motion which represent not only a clash between the state and the citizen, but also the inner-workings of a parent-child relationship. The struggle between King Creon and Antigone in Sophocle’s Antigone is uncannily similar to a fight between a parent and a child.
A characteristic that one can often remember about one’s parents is their use of language to assert their authority. While the parent has the child’s best interests at hand, he or she can express more anger than is intended, leaving behind an outrage that affects the parent’s actions and words. Creon’s anger is the result of disappointment in a child’s disobedience. He uses extreme language when Antigone’s sister, Ismene, doubts his judgment to punish Antigone: “‘Her? Don’t even mention her [Antigone]-she no longer exists’. ‘What? You’d kill your own son’s bride?’ ‘Absolutely…A worthless women for my son? It repels me’” (639-644). Parents often believe that their word is final, and that just by stating their rules the children will obey them. Because Creon’s statements are not true, and Antigone still “exists”, he must have another reason for speaking these words. Like a parent attempting to convince himself and the child that he is right, Creon is using strong language to justify his actions and convince his court that Antigone is useless. Parents and children often use strong language in fights, and the parents attempt to assert their authority by stating an extreme opinion or rule. Creon is no different than a father, venting his frustration at Antigone’s disobedience.
Creon’s interactions with Haemon demonstrate how parents assert their power in relationships with their children, and how children can lose favor with their parents. Haemon criticizes his father for being too harsh towards Antigone. Creon responds forcefully, alleging that Haemon is lecturing him: “‘So, men our age, we’re to be lectured, are we? Schooled by a boy this age’ ‘Only in what is right…if I seem young, look less to my years and more to what I do’ ‘Do? Is admiring rebels an achievement?’”(812-817). Creon perceives Haemon’s criticism as disrespectful, sarcastically asking his son if “admiring rebels” is an achievement, and whether he is “to be lectured”. By perceiving Haemon’s recommendation as a disrespectful, rebellious comment coming from a “boy”, Creon is asserting his fatherhood and power in the relationship (814). Creon’s assertion that he is the elderly, wise half of the relationship makes him like a parent asserting his authority over a child. One’s parents can often justify their actions and opinions by claiming that they have more experience or wisdom. Creon dismisses Haemon’s criticism by saying that it is just that of a child, just like a parent can dismiss a child’s dispositions and caprice as immature. Haemon loses favor with Creon as the argument continues. After Haemon leaves the scene in frustration, declaring that Creon will never see him again, Creon replies “‘Let him do-dream up something desperate, past all human limit! Good riddance’” (863-865). Creon’s statements contradict his tone before their argument: “‘do you love me, no matter what I do?’”(708). Before their dispute, Creon is seeking to validate his decision to punish Antigone, asking Haemon to support him “no matter what [he does]”. After their argument, we see a completely different picture- Creon cries “Good Riddance!” to show he does not need Haemon. The king’s change in attitude toward his son reflects how children can lose respect with their parents if they are perceived to be disrespectful.
A parent, however, can sometimes feel remorseful or regretful for their anger if they learn that it can result in resentment. It is Creon’s remorse for his anger, when he becomes aware of their consequence that makes him the true “father” of his kingdom. Much like a parent realizing that his aggressiveness may have resulted in more harm, Creon recants his actions when he learns that Tiresias’s warnings of coming disaster might be true. His ability to recognize the idea that he may have been wrong makes him less decisive and brash than a true leader, and more like an everyday father. Similar to a parent, Creon takes responsibility for his actions, but he also does not want to yield to the will of the “child” or the subject. Creon’s parental reactions to the events in the play show the reader a different perspective from which to analyze an argument between a father and his children.
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I found this to be a perfect analogy for Creon and Antigone, one totally unexpected as well. The analysis of Creon and Haemon's argument is very well done. I think that you could've done more with the Creon/Antigone relationship. I believe you could've put in one more paragraph further exploring it, perhaps something about how Creon treats her like a father would treat a rebellious daughter. It especially fits in with his big "oh shit" moment when he rushes off to free Antigone, like how I would imagine a father would rush off to save his daughter when he realized his punishment is too much. This essay has also made me re-analyse the relationship between me and my parents, good job! A great essay.
ReplyDeleteThe juxatapostion of the parent child relationships among Creon, Antigone, and Haemon brings up a very interesting observation. While most regard Antigone as the rebellious child int he story, her actions are actually much more docile and submitting than those of Haemon. Haemon goes so far as to attempt to kill his own father! Yet, another worthy observation is brought up. In any relationship where one entity contains more power than the other, such as in a parent child relationship, the weaker will almost always try to victimize themselves. Both Antigone and Haemon, instead of resisting to the death, carry out Creon's decisions to the extreme. Both end up killing themselves in order to prove a point. The weaker will usually victimize themselves in order to prove the decisions of the stronger were foolish and counterproductive. Your paper sheds light on the complexities of not only parent child relationships, but social relationships as well.
ReplyDeleteThis was a very interesting comparison. I agree that Creon is using language to show authority in your second paragraph, The idea that Creon is saying these things to try to convince himself and others that he is right is a great point.
ReplyDeleteThe way you made the parent-child relationship the relationship between Creon and Haemon was interesting. It made me think about parents in general and disagreements a child may have with them. For A parent yells at or grounds their child when the child comes short of expectations. Let's say the child got a bad grade in a class, the parent would yell at the child. However, let's say the class was AP Spanish, or another difficult AP, the parent would eventually realize that they were harsh on the child. Your paper emphasized this and showed how parents, although don't want to retract what they said, are sometimes forced to retract their punishments.
ReplyDeleteThis is interesting because presented the relationship between Antigone and Creon as that between a child and parent really gave justification (in my mind) to the way Creon reacted. It got me thinking about what was really going through Creon's mind
ReplyDeleteI just hope my parents never get that mad at me.
I really thought that when you said that parents thinking their word is final, tied in very nicely to what you are trying to say here. I think this is thought provoking and well written and relates perfectly to the story. I also agree with what Kristen said about leveling with Creon, that is very true. I enjoyed the metaphor!
ReplyDeleteI enjoy this idea of a child-parent relationship. This metaphor seems to show that these characters really aren't that different than we are. Creon and Heamon truly act like father and son. A major reason this play has remained in the literary canon for so long is because the reader can relate to the characters. Also, I like the quote at the bottom of your blog page.
ReplyDeleteI liked this metaphor because it connected us to the story using a modern day comparison. the parent child idea helped me see creon in a different way and almost let me condone his behavior. very clear very good
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